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3:02 who “terminated”what? Therapy?

I came back to this video as a reminder of the improvement I’ve made. Some days are hard..❤

They need to grow up...stop parentifying those around them...stop expecting others to take care of them and ADULT at the age-appropriate level they should be at in life. People with BPD want a perfect-parent. They need to become their own parent and stop projecting that demand onto others.

BPD leads to a spiritual awakening if you allow it.

In DBT they call this not “Fragilizing” the client, perpetuating the idea that they can’t do what needs to be done. Impulsivity is described as a “skills deficit” not as not being able to “muster self control.”

She has such kind eyes.

This attitude applies to so many conditions in Medicine, if not all! Health care professionals, do not let your biases make your patients become disabled people by default. First, do no harm. Visualize their potential, communicate realistic hope. This also aligns with a famous speech by Viktor Frankl. Doctors’ words (just like parents’ remarks or judges’ sentences) are the most impactful medicine.

This guy is problematic af

Isn't this simply a play, then?

I like these talks and explanations. HIs online therapy sessions not so much.

i wonder what this guy is suffering from

Your so beautiful! I thought you might be Cambodian but i heard Philippines you look alot like my cambodian best friend

Do borderlines feel love …. I fell for one and I am not sure what to believe

I love watching Frank read his patient's note. You can see how much he liked this patient and how proud he is of their progress.

But things ARE negative and people DON'T like me. So are we being gaslighted?

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Beautiful. Although I do believe in absolute truth.

Wonderful, thank you

10 years of seeking for help here and getting told there was something wrong with my brain hormones, that I couldn't feel happyness and all that jazz... that's what I needed to hear TYSM 🙏

Who is the dr?

In my experience, i don't think it ever goes away. I can be ok for months and then a trigger happens and all of my symptoms whoosh back in. It's horrendous 😢. Then i have to use DBT skills ❤

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What about the issue with the inability to experience any sort of true, lasting love? It’s just attachment, infatuation and neediness with no sense of true love which is the most tragic part

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Kelly Bastard in a nutshell.

Hopelessness is for chickens.

Do you think DBT is an effective way to learn skills so you can retrain your brain to handle the difficulties of BPD and possibly overcome them?

Sometimes I find myself in an unjust situation and I get into an angry episode that last about 3 days. Yelling and screaming it out helps, but ruins my relationship who is in my company or the even worse target of my anger.

This is actually quite helpful

for me the lack of control is sometimes eating and masturbation :(

The getting beyond people not liking me and isolating with no friends is where I'm at......It's very difficult for me to look past that and make friends......any advice/video advice?

" All these years, I'd been imagining what was in people's minds and I was wrong "... 😢 Rings home for so many of us. I'm glad I don't take everything so negative anymore. 🤍

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no longer drowning in emotions as much 🤍 because you become attuned to yourself and your needs & emotions with gentle curiousity and you deal with it yourself like you are a loved one/ dear friend.

I was married to a woman who was diognosed with BPD/ADHD post divorce following 14 years of marriage. This is a profound interview.

I'm turning 40 this year, was diagnosed with bpd when I was 26. Was extreme hell for others around me. I was up and down, violent, consumed with guilt, cutting myself, suicidal, constantly internally putting myself down, constant lies. I became an alcoholic drinking 20 drinks every night after work. I pushed everyone away from me until there wasn't many people left. The theropy really didn't help me I felt like I was losing a part of myself and so I just gave up. Wasnt until I was about 38 that I felt like I could start to see issues and correct it within my mind. It does get better with age and time. But honestly I would recommend therapy for 6 months straight and keep seeing the therapist when you need after. Bpd is really hard and it's something you have to do within yourself to get better. But if anyone reads this and needs some help or guidance don't hesitate to contact me ❤

Rose Skeeters has an interactive community online for BPD recovery , it’s fantastic and has really helped me!

Bpd might of been easier to recognize and control if I had been diagnosed and treated correctly. But I guess if you factor in abuse, neglect and trauma it become’s much more difficult to pin down. One time I was hospitalized they did a 3 hour test that revealed I had bpd. But they never went into detail on what it was or how to treat it. So I continued on cycling and feeling completely out of control! I did try to commit suicide a couple of time’s. But for the most part I never stopped looking for help. Sadly it is very hard to find someone that know’s how to treat a person with bpd. I’m still searching. It should not be this hard to find help. Bpd is not well understood. I can honestly say that I have never found a therapist that actually knew what it was. There is just no education out there. At least where I have looked for 31 years. Even with a very supportive husband it has been a terrible struggle to just stay alive and keep pushing.

I love how Yeomans talked about his patients journey. So much pure love and kindness and proudness towards them. He is a gem.

They never get better

Love me some Frank Yeomans! So greatful for all his work and public education!!❤

A loving parent will gently address a child’s mistakes and continue to love them. A disordered parent will punish for mistakes and withhold affection. It makes perfect sense that the child will internalize that in their psyche.

genius :)

Breaks my ❤. Someone I cared for very deeply lost their life to this disease. R.I.P. PH

This is correct thankyou Dr Yeomans.

At 5:11, Frank Yeomans introduces a category of persons who never stop having that initial reaction. Can we find a way past that? Not if he is entirely right. Perhaps a deeper investigation may find a way past it? I would guess so. A more subtle understanding is hard, nearly impossible, to winkle out. Can the therapist's intuition help?

What you said didn't at all persuade me that you had 'borderline personality disorder'. The normal person is always looking for meaning; some people look harder than others. I think you had a severe stress, and that it overwhelmed you for a while. I think everyone has degrees of stress that can overwhelm them. That doesn't mean that they have 'borderline personality disorder'.

Looks good!

You start to feel like you're acting someone else's life

Carl Jung is the answer here